When it comes to New Year’s resolutions, we have this tendency to set BIG, lofty goals for ourselves…things we couldn’t POSSIBLY complete, even in a year’s time.
Either because they are too many, too much, in too short of a time, or because they tackle aspects of our mental end emotional selves that we aren’t ACTUALLY ready to face, or lack the tools to address CONSISTENTLY.
I have found two things tend to impact our ability to follow through with our goals and/or resolutions, and that is…
2. Dreaming Big
Researchers have found TRUE procrastinators actually struggle with emotional regulation, not their priorities; they feel shameful about a fear of not succeeding, and would rather appear lazy, than incapable.
- Forgiving yourself.
- Breaking your tasks up into bite-sized portions.
- Treating work like play.
(Stay tuned for my next post where I back this up with evidenced-based research!)
2. Dreaming Big.
Dreamers have a tendency to get lost in fantasy (which is also a trait of true procrastinators) who are GREAT at visualizing the big picture, but NOT so great at visualizing each step it would take to climb that glorious mountain.
The solution is to visualize yourself CONSISTENTLY doing SMALL action steps that lead up to that pinnacle point. And then DECIDE and COMMIT not just to the dream, but the itty bitty steps.
Now, my private Facebook community of 380 therapists and healers, is for DREAMERS who are DONE procrastinating, and willing to learn the necessary steps to climbing their own personal Mt. Everest.
In this group, we support each other and uplift one another with a resounding…
“YOU CAN DO IT!”
Right after our last Facebook ads training, our abundant healer, Kristen Boyer, managed to attract over 100 clients to her private Facebook group, in only 10 days.
Here is a bit of her journey in the program, and how she is experiencing this new influx for her practice…
What would you do with 100 new, potential clients in only 10 days?
- Why do you keep yourself small?
- Why do you keep telling yourself “I’ll do it tomorrow?”
- Why do you keep insisting that you don’t DESERVE it?
- Why do you have to be an “expert” to explore and share what only YOU can personally know, in your experience?
When is it going to be time to STEP INTO YOUR POWER and your SOUL ASSIGNMENT?
When are you going to LET GO of your scarcity attitudes around money, and realize you have to spend it, to make it?
“So long, 2017, and don’t let the door hit you on the way out!”
Time to STOP focusing on the negative.
Time to STOP REPELLING your abundances with anxiety, fear, and doomsday predictions.
This is YOUR LIFE.
This is YOUR STORY.
No one is going to write it but YOU.
And the best way to take one small step towards BEST SELLING AUTHORSHIP, is to book a free consultation with ME!
This is a FREE business coaching session in which we take a look at your business and devise a plan of approach that might have you collecting $9000 in revenue per month…like me 🙂
Alternatively, check out these AMAZING trainings that are still available to you for our open enrollment period, December 1rd, 2017 to January 3rd, 2018.
Hope to see you there!