Attract and keep a secure and soul-shaking relationship that leaves you breathless.
Experience secure, passionate, and spiritually conscious relationships fast, with our fun and creative step-by-step frameworks, expert guidance, and supportive membership community.
If you are ready to dive into learning about attachment styles with The MacWilliam Method™, I want to assure you, you are strong enough, brave enough, smart enough, and worthy enough to experience the love you want.
The LOVE YOU SEEK WILL FIND YOU, ONCE YOU DECIDED AND COMMIT TO THE PROCESS OF...
AND decoding your attachment styles.
If feeling more confident in love and cultivating a secure relationship is something you really want, then you have to invest in that future.
Because if you do nothing, guess what you’ll get: more of the same.
The key is to FEEL your way through it. You can’t think your way around your feelings. There is no easy shortcut or magic pill. Life is lived by feeling it. That includes all of it. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
The good news is, the tools you might need are relatively simple. And the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey already exists INSIDE YOU. My methods are so powerful, because they most effectively connect you, to YOU! And help you relax into the vibrancy of your own inner spirit.
IN A FAST-PACED WORLD, you need a fun, creative solution that's quick and easy-to-use.
and you don't need to be "fully healed" of all your emotional baggage to find security.
- You don't need to be a counselor or self-help guru in training.
- You don't need to take every yoga class within a 5 mile radius and learn to meditate for hours a day.
- You don't even need to be actively dating!
Even if you only skim over the lectures and the workbooks in my courses, the experiential practices are powerful enough to start feeling increased attachment security, immediately!
“Briana MacWilliam is the kind of teacher who gets down to the bone where the blood is hot and running. She will never point to a thing when she can show it to you… She knows when to drop the important stuff and she drops it on you from her own experiential core. She does not take you anywhere she is not willing to travel herself. She has a combination of grace and grit that make her a fantastic teacher and a fabulous clinician.”
Alan Pottinger
“I am astounded by Briana’s knowledge of attachment. This comes from someone (albeit a layman) who has read voraciously on the subject for 7 years, now. There is insight and detailed explanations that simply can’t be found anywhere else…She should have a cable show. The level of clarity provided is beyond anything I’ve seen.”
Jim Lewandowski
“When I found Briana’s courses I was struggling with an on-again-off-again relationship and starting to feel like I was going crazy. I saw myself acting in ways that shocked and embarrassed me, but at the same time my partner seemed to want to throw fuel on the fire. In my heart, I couldn’t believe that everything we shared was a lie, and my partner was just some evil “narcissist.” Briana’s perspective made it so much clearer for me, and has given me real hope.”
Maria Sanchez
Just imagine, what if instead of feeling stuck in codependent patterns, agonizing over a dismal dating scene, wasting your energy worrying about red flags, and feeling confused over how to be compassionate without compromising your needs, you might be able to…
TRUST
your intuition & feel IN CONTROL when insecurity or a trigger pops up out of nowhere.
SQUASH
“automatic negative thoughts” – before they spiral out of control.
SIT BACK & RELAX
while a potential partner takes the initiative to call you first, and frequently plans your activities together.
UPGRADE
from bending over backwards to please everyone around you, to fortifying your boundaries and knowing when and how to say “no” when you need to.
SPEAK AUTHENTICALLY
& vulnerably to friends, family, and co-workers without them dismissing or invalidating your feelings.
EXPERIENCE
conflicts as opportunities for deepening intimacy and understanding with your love ones of every description.
LET GO
of a fear of not being good enough, so you can finally attract & allow yourself to RECEIVE the gifts of a life that lights you on fiyah!
It's all possible for you!
What Makes My Approach Different
I help DRIVEN, PROFESSIONAL WOMEN go from self-doubting to self-sovereign, with my unique service:
The MacWilliam Method™ (TMM) is a service that utilizes a psycho-spiritual approach to applying creative arts interventions, through the framework of attachment theory. TMM is informed by evidence-based practices in attachment and trauma research but is rooted in creative arts interventions as the primary healing modality.
The directives in my online courses have been modified for experiential learning, coupled with live support and discussion in private Facebook group forums.
TMM is composed of three principal tools to address mind, body, and spirit:
#1 Cognitive Reframing
Raise conscious awareness through cognitive reframing, so you can re-write painful narratives and create an openness to receiving the love you want.
#2 Body Activation
With a blend of guided imagery, basic movement, and sound healing, we gently titrate all that anxious energy stored up in your body to build new neural networks in a healthier framework, using the language of the body and the unconscious.
#3 Arts-Based Experientials
Through creative expression, we externalize the inner world and achieve self-sovereignty by being in dialogue with the Authentic Self.
“The course work helped me tap into my emotions, rather than just my intellectualism, which I struggle with. It also wound up helping me in other areas of my life too…I just started noticing things about myself that I hadn’t known before. After years of therapy, in only 6 months it has helped tremendously.”
Irena, 35
“The best part for me is the art activities. Because when I paint in daily life, I have a sense of craftsmanship about it, but In these exercises, I get another angle on it and sense the presence of my inner child!”
Mikael, G.
“Briana’s videos are always so comprehensive and integrated. I’m so grateful for Briana’s work on Anxious/Avoidant Attachment, as this construct has been my default relationship pattern through my twenties. Briana’s understanding has helped me reconcile with this, and I feel as though I can make healthier partner selections in the future. Much love!”
Ralph, Widdop 29
Discovering Membership Program
Join our thriving community of conscientious adults interested in secure and loving relationships.
Why join our membership program?
Starting at just $97 per month, our membership program is an affordable and accessible alternative to traditional therapy, while giving you access to a unique and multifaceted approach to healing that is fun and creative! But don’t let the lower price fool you – we’ve packed this program with expert guidance, transformative resources, and a supportive community that will help you overcome old patterns, build new skills, and create the relationships and life you truly desire.
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Looking to go deeper and experience longer-lasting results? The Discovering Membership is for you!
For students in the Discovering Membership, much of the knowledge and research they have done is beginning to synthesize. They’ve managed to create some spaciousness around their feelings and the yearnings are not so poignant anymore. They are also are more willing to sit with uncomfortable feelings.
Our Discovering Membership students are searching for a deeper sense of meaning for what they’ve experienced, and are ready to delve into a deeper sense of spirituality.
It’s likely that old stuff that they thought they’d processed may resurfacing and they may struggle with feelings of failure, or thinking they’ve regressed on their path to healing. But it’s jut another stage of the process!
Growth in this phase revolves around the recognition that old stuff comes up because you are now strong enough to process it with a new level of sophistication, one that fosters in spiritual maturity you seek, in addition to the expansion of consciousness.
Available courses for the Discovering Membership…
Check out these success stories from students that have taken my courses and seen quick, long-lasting results!
"For the first time in my life, I feel secure... Briana has a much deeper understanding of attachment styles than most of the renowned experts have."
Kairi
“I’d been in counseling for about 2.5 years, and had gotten stuck... I thought the course would help me get unstuck with some stuff, and I was right; it did! And some of the things that have been big for me, I didn’t necessarily expect. Having a way to get through the anxious jumbly mess has been very helpful for me.”
Daina
“This program has done for me in 7 weeks what years of self-help books and cognitive therapy couldn’t do.”
Kim Nava
ACCELERATED LEARNING
Access to 20 robust psycho-educational, self-directed courses including creative tutorials, guided visualizations, and other hands-on tools to help you experience RESULTS immediately.
IMPLEMENTATION GUIDES
Unique and highly effective implementation guides and step-by-step frameworks that will help you take valuable insight and turn it into action steps that will affect REAL changes fast.
ONLINE COMMUNITY
Lifetime access to our student Facebook community, where you can ask questions and engage with an active and supportive community.
DISCOUNTED PRIVATE COACHING
With your membership you will also gain access to discounted options for private coaching support. You will have the option to work with Briana directly, or work with one of our highly trained coaches, to support you on your journey.
LIVE Q&A EVENTS
With The Discovering Membership you will gain exclusive access to live Q&A calls where you can ask your questions in real time. There will also be the opportunity to submit your questions in advance, even if you cannot attend live. You will also have access to all replays.
LIVE CREATIVE WORKSHOPS
In addition to the live Q&A events, you will also have access to one, creative workshop per month. During this live event, you will participate in an interactive, art-based experiential activity that will 10x the results from your courses.
The Discovering Membership will take you from…
- SUPPRESSING YOUR NEEDS, to VOICING THEM WITH CONFIDENCE, without fear of your partner running away or emotionally punishing you.
- DOUBTING YOUR FEELINGS to TRUSTING YOUR INTUITION, vs. a “triggered” emotional response.
- FEELING OBJECTIFIED OR USED, to experiencing sex & emotional intimacy as A UNIFIED, SENSUAL, SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.
- BEGGING AFTER BREADCRUMBS to CREATING EXCITING PLANS FOR THE FUTURE & watching your partner make them happen as soon as possible.
- WAITING HOURS, DAYS OR WEEKS for a return text or phone call, to GETTING A RESPONSE RIGHT AWAY, from someone who not only responds to you, but also initiates contact with you.
- FEELING SMOTHERED OR DESPERATE, to FEELING INDEPENDENTLY VITAL AND PASSIONATE, so you are always bubbling over with new things to share & talk about!
- BEING FRIEND ZONED, to going on ROMANTIC TRAVELS VACATIONS TOGETHER, and experiencing deeper levels of intimacy with heartfelt, long-term commitment.
It's all possible for you!
But don’t take my word for it—watch these testimonials from frustrated "self-help junkies" that have taken my courses, and finally seen results!
“There’s a way that Briana approaches disorganized attachment that is healing and life-giving; you’re not this disconnected freak that nobody is ever going to understand, you’re not lost out there. This is just part of your story. And there are ways to work it out in healthy, functional, good ways.”
Joe
"Your course and activities empowered me to live without anxiety holding me back in relationships; I now have a better understanding of myself that's already improved my quality of life and enabled me to get back out there after a recent divorce. I just finished the Anxious Attachment 101 course two days ago, and I already found myself... feeling confident and hopeful, as opposed to anxious and worried. The MacWilliam Method works, and I recommend it to anyone with anxiety."
Mike
“I gained a deep understanding of ‘the anxious avoidant trap’...and how both of us were playing a role in this push-pull dynamic, specifically around breadcrumbing. And once there was a trigger, how some of those little things were pulling us back together or pushing us further apart. I had also described the “ecstasy” and the “anguish” of this relationship, and it was interesting to learn how that’s really what was happening on the neurochemical level... Don’t even question it, just dive in. The feeling that I have now, is one of hope.”
Jordan
“I realized that just because I am acting like a secure person would, doesn't mean that I will actually get my needs met. So, I liked how Briana combined the intellectual stuff with the body-centric stuff, which…opened up changes within myself. I would recommend bringing your whole self to this course. It might feel uncomfortable, but it actually clears a lot out from your system; more than you know."
AC
"I just think if anybody is struggling with a rollercoaster relationship, a push and pull dynamic, something where you find yourself wanting to be in one minute and out the next... this is the most helpful course. It's super powerful, and I would say, just do it!"
Stacy De La Rosa
“As an anxiously attached person moving toward a more secure attachment, the course provides a process of grounding within myself so I could listen and hear and receive. I learned a lot about myself and the imagery was a gateway into understanding. I was able to find permanent rooting in lessons I was learning through meditation and visioning. Make sure you have a quiet alone space and reserve sometime before and after to process. Also, don't feel guilty if you didn't understand right away, keep at it and it will come to you.”
Laura Edwards
"This course really helped me to understand 'the why.' A lot of other courses tell you what it is, but they don't tell you why it is, and I'm a why person. It helped me understand why I was feeling the way I was feeling, and step back and look at my own behavior, and my husband's behavior. It also helped me release feelings I didn't even know were there. Take the course. It's definitely worth the investment."
Amanda
"This course is not about getting your ex back, it is all about getting yourself back. This is an investment in something important, YOU. You could spend a lot more money on books and other programs (like I've done) and find your wheels spinning. If you do take the course, make the most of it, take your time and do every step and don't hold back when it comes to expressing your feelings creatively, you might surprise yourself."
Keturah Jordan
"Do not hesitate. Definitely take this course. I am sure you have read the books, I am sure that you have gone to a counselor, like I did, and it's intellectual. This course brings the experiential. It will bring the two things together. It will help you feel your emotions, go to your body, and process through that. Just do it. It's so worth it."
Eva Alos Melchor
