What If There Were a Simple Solution to Your Most Painful Relationship Problems?
Answer these 4 questions and discover the #1 secret to a HEALTHY LOVE LIFE!
Are you looking for a secure relationship, but find yourself trapped in toxic relationships with partners that are either emotionally unavailable, or too smothering and over-controlling?
Let me guess: you're looking for a soul-shaking, passionate partnership, but struggle to achieve self-confidence in romantic relationships.
I bet you’re also feeling frustrated and hopeless about the time and money you might’ve spent on self-help and therapy, but none of it has led to significant changes in your love life.
Am I close?
There are so many smart, funny, witty, sexy super achievers out there searching for an attractive, secure partner while draining themselves of the necessary resources to sustain a fulfilling life.
So often they think...
“Once I finally meet ‘the one’ all the pieces will be in place, and I can finally relax and start enjoying myself.”
But the enjoyment has to start long before that, and unless you know the #1 secret to soul-shaking love, it’s going to be a long wait.
Success in love isn't about having the best job, losing the most weight, contouring the highest cheekbones, or being funnier and wittier than everyone else.
Additionally, all the couples counseling, shiny new communication skills, and emotional vulnerability in the world aren’t going to help you, unless you address your attachment styles first.
Your attachment style is a blueprint that acts as a compass for how much closeness or space you desire when it comes to emotional intimacy.
Your attachment styles affect you on the level of:
- The deepest recesses of your survival (Limbic) brain...
- The stimulation of your nervous system...
- Your genetic inheritance…
- A chemical cocktail of naturally-occurring neurotransmitters that create a euphoric attachment to inconsistent partners — like a drug addiction!
But the brain has “plasticity”—meaning it’s malleable, and can shift your attachment style!
Hi, my name is Briana MacWilliam, and I am a licensed and board-certified creative arts therapist, with more than 15 years in the field, working with individuals, just like you.
Using a psycho-spiritual approach to attachment styles (which are 4 unique blueprints for how you give and receive love), I help insecure lovers go from self-doubting to self-sovereign, to attract those soul-shaking, passionate partnerships they want, without having to talk in circles for years on end, with no tangible result. And I do this, using my unique service, The MacWilliam Method™.
But it’s not just my professional experiences that inform my unique method. Attachment styles and healing attachment wounds is a topic so near and dear to my heart, because I don’t just teach this stuff, I’ve lived it. You can learn more about my personal journey here.
“I have spent a lot of time chasing after emotionally unavailable partners, but after this course, I now see what power I have to shift the way I am showing up in love. Plus, the creative exercises are fun, and the lectures are easy to listen to. Highly recommend this course.”
Katie Melrose, 29
“Dear Briana, just want to thank you for your amazingly clear and eye-opening videos on attachment styles and spirituality. In addition to the book of Amir Levin, your (holistic and body) view on feelings and behaviour really touched me and gave me a ton of new insights and more self-awareness. Thank you so much!”
Marco, N., 36
“My biggest struggle has been discerning my own intuition from a knee-jerk response to triggering statements and behaviors from emotionally unavailable partners. I found myself questioning if my feelings were even real, or if I was going crazy. The guided meditations and arts-based activities really got me back into my body and grounded me in a way that nothing else has, not even years of therapy and self help. Now, I feel a lot more in touch with my intuition and can tell when my gut is giving me an “it’s okay” signal, or a “run as fast as you can” signal! I highly recommend this course.”
Michelle Giuseppe, 31
Most people search for quick fixes or easy solutions to changing their partner's behavior and feel frustrated when they wind up in the same old situations.
And all the insight in the world is not necessarily going to make you feel any differently!
Research has shown that attachment styles change; but not if you are left alone in isolation, and not if you are only talking about it!
Once you learn what you’re attachment style is, you’ll have the key to decoding your most painful struggles in love and start experiencing radical changes in your relationships.
After taking this quiz, you’ll have the tools to go from…
- SUPPRESSING YOUR NEEDS, to VOICING THEM WITH CONFIDENCE, without fear of your partner running away or emotionally punishing you.
- DOUBTING YOUR FEELINGS to TRUSTING YOUR INTUITION, vs. a “triggered” emotional response.
- WAITING HOURS, DAYS OR WEEKS for a return text or phone call, to GETTING A RESPONSE RIGHT AWAY, from someone who not only responds to you, but also initiates contact with you.
- WORRYING ABOUT A WANDERING EYE, to COMPLETE CONFIDENCE IN YOUR PARTNER’S LOYALTY, because you know you have their rapt attention (the type of relentless devotion you only see in romance novels and Hollywood movies).
- FEELING OBJECTIFIED OR USED, to experiencing sex & emotional intimacy as A UNIFIED, SENSUAL, SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.
- BEGGING AFTER BREADCRUMBS to CREATING EXCITING PLANS FOR THE FUTURE & watching your partner make them happen as soon as possible.
- BEING FRIEND ZONED, to going on ROMANTIC TRAVELS VACATIONS TOGETHER, and experiencing deeper levels of intimacy with heartfelt, long-term commitment.
- FEELING SMOTHERED OR DESPERATE, to FEELING INDEPENDENTLY VITAL AND PASSIONATE, so you are always bubbling over with new things to share & talk about!
But don’t take my word for it—watch these testimonials from folks that have taken both the quiz, and my courses, and experienced a radical difference!
"For the first time in my life, I feel secure... Briana has a much deeper understanding of attachment styles than most of the renowned experts have."
Kairi
"I just think if anybody is struggling with a rollercoaster relationship, a push and pull dynamic, something where you find yourself wanting to be in one minute and out the next... this is the most helpful course. It's super powerful, and I would say, just do it!"
Stacy De La Rosa
“This program has done for me in 7 weeks what years of self-help books and cognitive therapy couldn’t do.”
Kim Nava
If you are ready to dive into learning about attachment styles with The MacWilliam Method™, first I want to assure you, all the things and the feels are possible for you.
More than that, it’s even probable, once you decide and commit to living nothing less than a next-level life, and committing to the processes that will set you on that path. The good news is, the tools you might need are relatively simple. And the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey already exists INSIDE YOU.
Negative energy and defensive patterning that keep you stuck in a confusion cycle around attachment styles CAN be transformed and healed so that you can RELAX into the brightest luminescence that is your spirit. It is a process that will allow you to step into a state of being on FIYAH about life, and share that brilliance with a stars-in-their-eyes lover.
“There’s a way that Briana approaches disorganized attachment that is healing and life-giving; you’re not this disconnected freak that nobody is ever going to understand, you’re not lost out there. This is just part of your story. And there are ways to work it out in healthy, functional, good ways.”
Joe
"This course is not about getting your ex back, it is all about getting yourself back. This is an investment in something important, YOU. You could spend a lot more money on books and other programs (like I've done) and find your wheels spinning. If you do take the course, make the most of it, take your time and do every step and don't hold back when it comes to expressing your feelings creatively, you might surprise yourself."
Keturah Jordan
“I gained a deep understanding of ‘the anxious avoidant trap’...and how both of us were playing a role in this push-pull dynamic, specifically around breadcrumbing. And once there was a trigger, how some of those little things were pulling us back together or pushing us further apart. I had also described the “ecstasy” and the “anguish” of this relationship, and it was interesting to learn how that’s really what was happening on the neurochemical level... Don’t even question it, just dive in. The feeling that I have now, is one of hope.”
Jordan
It's also important to realize that secure attachment isn't just for people in relationships.
is an experience you have
when you are single as well.
Just imagine, what if instead of feeling stuck in codependent patterns, agonizing over a dismal dating scene, wasting your energy worrying about red flags, and feeling confused over how to be compassionate without compromising your needs, you might be able to…
TRUST
your intuition & feel IN CONTROL when insecurity or a trigger pops up out of nowhere.
SQUASH
“automatic negative thoughts” – before they spiral out of control.
SIT BACK & RELAX
while a potential partner takes the initiative to call you first, and frequently plans your activities together.
UPGRADE
from bending over backwards to please everyone around you, to fortifying your boundaries and knowing when and how to say “no” when you need to.
SPEAK AUTHENTICALLY
& vulnerably to friends, family, and co-workers without them dismissing or invalidating your feelings.
EXPERIENCE
conflicts as opportunities for deepening intimacy and understanding with your love ones of every description.
LET GO
of a fear of not being good enough, so you can finally attract & allow yourself to RECEIVE the gifts of a life that lights you on fiyah!
If you are ready to dive in, I recommend taking the attachment styles quiz, today. You'll be so happy you did!
“Briana’s courses clarified so many things for me. Especially the emotional and body boundaries lessons. I have a history of trauma, and this felt like a very clear and creative way to address my confusion around boundaries. Thank you, Briana!”
Mandi Cole, 33
“I have seen a lot of things online that talk about “codependency” and “narcissism” but Briana breaks this down in a very clear and nonjudgmental way, for the laymen. The activities she offers are fun to do, and I feel like I have a stronger grasp of what my triggers are when it comes to personal boundaries. Highly recommend this course.”
Nick Patten, 42
“Briana’s course is full of information and very practical. My favorite exercise was ‘The Healing Tree.’ Whenever I am feeling anxious, I make one and it calms me right down. I have so many of them now!”
Jitka, 38
